don't fight against the world.

you may have a high integrity or strong commitment to your principle, but you just can't fight reality. because people change, technology change, trend change, and many other things as well. you can't be stubborn with all your integrity and fight against the world. you will be left behind. i'm not saying we can't have our integrity, but just to loosen up a little when it is needed. for our own good.

There's always a reason.

For almost everything, there's always a reason or some. This one is a great theory because it is so true, indeed. It is for the most simple things to the most complex ones, there's always a reason. For example, why people sleeps at night? It is because people usually work and do stuff from morning until afternoon since there's sunlight. Or like, why people hate each other? Could be because they've hurt each others' feeling.
This theory help me to be more patient, understanding, and also forgiving. But, before I use it for myself, I often use it to advised someone first :p (After all, talking or advising is easier than doing.) Having many experience (giving advice) with this theory, I started using it for myself. I have this believe that basically everybody's nice. So, when it comes to bad people, I often search for answers and reasons he/she being bad. Sometimes, from their family background, their past, their motives, or anything is possible. Finding the reasons, makes me more understanding. For example, when a guy did something that hurt my feeling on purpose, I started questioning. First, whats wrong with him? But, that doesn't give me much answer (only makes me swearing even more :p). Then I go to the other questions, whats my fault? what did I do to make him feel so bad/mad and do something like that? And, there's where I found the answers. Well, maybe I didn't do something on purpose to make him feel so mad which make him do something that bad, but it is something i didn't realize at first. It is something that I realized after I tried to feel in his shoes. Even what i found was not really that big of reason for some kind of revenge, but still is a reason (well,maybe it did hurt him that much). The finding made forgiving an easier things to do. That was a little of my story and my implementations ;)
It only takes more time and effort to search for a reason. It is not that hard and yet it is not that easy :p Because sometimes, the reason is just not for you to find out, something called privacy. But believe me, there's always a reason, even no reason at all is a reason (if you get what I mean ;) ). However, not everyone likes to share their reasons and also not everyone should know your reasons ;) The things that you have to believe and remind to yourself is that "There's always a reason". It will help you to be more understanding and forgiving. Trust me, It does work. Well, Happy "Reasoning",folks ! :p

I’m a dreamer!

Yes, I'm a dreamer! I have lotss of greaaatt dreams.. With dreams, I can travel around the world, I can have all the success which most people want for sure, I can experience everything I never been through before, I can have the greatest joy, how great the power of dreams are. Dream is something that kept me more alive than anyone with no dream (haha ofcourse!), a wise man once said one should have dreams to live longer (I can't remember who said that, mm.. it could've been me :p ). Dream is supposed to be sweet, beautiful, bright, shinny, well.. bottom-line everything's nice. And for me it is not only imagination that only could exist in my mind. It is something that I want to reach (menaing with efforts), and I happened to have lots of dreams that I think I'd better share it here so the possibility of my dreams coming true will be bigger (where did this theory come from?haha)..My wildest yet normal dreams, here goes ... -I'm not putting numbers to rank them because I just simply want them all ;)-

Things I call "My Wish List"

* Travel to all continents in this world, at least to 2 or 3 countries in each (except Australia, 1 is enough)
* Win international medal or trophy in any kind of fields or categories
* Dine in the world's greatest restaurant and taste the most favorite meal there ;)
* Represent my country (Indonesia) in international forum or seminar
* Witness at least 5 from 7 wonders of the world!
* Have trademark of my own name (any kind of products that I could sell and people buy for sure.hee)
* Ride on a "gondola" in Venice, Italy with someone I love :)
* Have my name written in a book for being remarkable (not just any book, a well-known one)
* Watch World Cup LIVE from the stadium!
*Be considered as an example of successful alumni from my university or school
*Experience scuba-diving, bungee-jumping, skiing, hiking/wall-climbing in the best places
* Visit (on duty) ICJ / ICC / UN (yes, I'm law student :p )
* Experience living in a country outside my continent for at least 3 months (Europe!!!)
* Witness international-class concerts or plays or performance or broadway's (at least 2)
* Having a super happy family with the perfect husband for me and perfect children for the family and living happily ever after with GOD's blessings all the time (yeaah, like all the women in the world would've wanted the same ;) )

>>all dreams above are very flexible and could be changed / given more details / added without prior notice :p <<
Last but not least.. may GOD bless me with all my deams :) Amen.